Showing posts with label first date. Show all posts
Showing posts with label first date. Show all posts

3 Awkward Date Moments


Awkward moments on a first date are almost inevitable, but it’s better to be prepared than completely blindsided. For instance, what kind of responses are women expecting when they hint to a specific topic; what kind of response will turn them off & what response will be most impressive. Listed below you’ll find some of the most awkward date topics and the responses we think are most inappropriate and which responses we think can earn you some brownie points.

Topic #1: she mentions that she just got out of a really tough relationship
Response: although “ex” talk should be forbidden on the first date, sometimes women will bring it up – for what reason, we wouldn’t know – nonetheless, if your date happens to bring up her previous relationship she probably wants to talk about it a little. Simply state, “It sounds like it was pretty harsh on you; do you want to talk about it?” Even by just suggesting that you’re willing to listen to the entire ordeal could be rather impressive. If she chooses whether or not to talk about it doesn’t really matter at that point, the important thing is that you look like you’re empathetic, sensitive, and you’re a listener; these are three traits that women absolutely love!

Flirty Freddy


I haven't been out on a date in a really long time. I just recently broke off my engagement with my boyfriend of 8 years. My friends insisted that I stop moping around my house and get back to dating.

So there's Freddy, a man who is a friend of a friend. Our mutual friend decided it was a great idea to set us up on a date. At the time, I was extremely nervous & hesitant about going - but I got talked into it anyway.

Immediately, I should have known that the date was doomed from the beginning. We agreed to meet at the restaurant at approximately 7:30PM. I got there around 7:40 - thought I'd be the late one until Freddy comes strolling in at 8:15. Sometimes, being late is inevitable because of traffic, getting lost, ect. but he didn't bother to call/text and let me know he was running late. That's what bothered me the most, the fact that he didn't have the decency to let his date know when he'd be in, that was strike one.

Save a Dime or Two

When it comes to the dating game, people often confuse the best dates to be the most costly. This concept couldn't be farther from the truth. The absolute truth of the matter is that there's only a chosen few that can spend like they're Bill Gates; as for the rest of us common folk - we're left to either be creative and hope our date doesn’t think we’re cheap or spend generously & feel the repercussions later.

Don’t settle for fast food, skip the coupon for that 2 for 1 deal at the nearest mini golfing course – why not have a great date and save you a dime or two at same time. The following are a couple awesome date ideas that can be customized for your every need. Be as creative as you’d like, the more effort you put into the low cost date the more likely your date will consider your efforts flattering & sweet. There’s something quite romantic about a date that hasn’t ever been done before – so don’t think of it as you being cheap, think of it as you being overly romantic!

First Date Jitters

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It's completely natural to feel the first date jitters. Above all else, you need to control the jitters and somehow redirect them into confidence! For instance the following are some tips to help make those jitters a figment of the past.

  • always look like a million dollars: no matter the income, a woman always has the ability to look sexy - curl that hair, put some lipstick on & iron that blouse
  • never speak of your past relationships: it's the first date, it's about you not about who you used to be with
  • don't play 21 questions: yes, you are supposed to learn a bit about one another but don't grill him with a thousand questions when you're barely 20 minutes into the date