CasualDates

It's completely natural to feel the first date jitters. Above all else, you need to control the jitters and somehow redirect them into confidence! For instance the following are some tips to help make those jitters a figment of the past.

• always look like a million dollars: no matter the income, a woman always has the ability to look sexy - curl that hair, put some lipstick on & iron that blouse
• never speak of your past relationships: it's the first date, it's about you not about who you used to be with
• don't play 21 questions: yes, you are supposed to learn a bit about one another but don't grill him with a thousand questions when you're barely 20 minutes into the date
• a light touch never hurt anyone: a little hand holding or arm clutching doesn't necessarily equal to sex on the beach but it will ease his mind & hopefully minimize the first jitters for you both
• remember it's their first date too: always remember there's two people for every date - if you're nervous, they probably are too! If you make it casual, fun - they'll feed off your energy & it'll lighten the mood